Now that Lucy’s finally ended things with Charlie and resigned herself to a life of celibacy, she has a problem. She may well be happy to have finally escaped the headfuckery of dating a non-monogamous man, but in the process she’s also had to give up the really excellent weekly…View Post
This week’s guest post comes from Ian, who’d like to give the male perspective on that wonderful rollercoaster we call dating. You can find Ian on Twitter @boys_ian Let me put my cards straight on the table: I’m rubbish at this and have had more dating disasters than a blind…View Post
While Lucy’s taking a break, here’s another wonderful Guest Post – this time from Serena, who offers a different perspective on the trials and tribulations of finding a partner in 2019. Hello everyone! When I saw Lucy was accepting guest-blogs, I jumped at the chance to give a snapshot of…View Post
Hi everyone, it’s me, Lucy. If you follow me on Twitter, you may already know this – so sorry if I’m repeating myself! This post is mainly for the rest of you lovely lot who don’t, or who didn’t see my announcement when I tweeted last week. I just wanted…View Post
A lovely guest post for you this week, thanks to Paul, who tweets at @ortski83 When Lucy agreed to let me write a guest blog for her, I was hesitant at first (after all who is really interested in what I have to say?!) but then I thought maybe some…View Post
For over a year Lucy’s been dating a non-monogamous man named Charlie. If you’ve missed all of this, you’ve got a shit tonne of catching up to do. Start from the beginning here, or just catch up on last week here. Lucy’s tried her hardest to accept the deal she’s…View Post
A year ago, Lucy went to a house party and met a devilishly sexy non-monogamous man named Charlie. Despite the fact that Charlie’s not only in an open relationship but also actually getting married to another woman, Lucy’s somehow ended up in a relationship with him. Which is (a) lovely,…View Post
It’s funny how one comment from a dumbass troll can inspire an entire blog post, but that’s sometimes how life works. Put enough shit down, and roses will grow. A few weeks ago Lucy was featured in The Metro newspaper. In response, a person calling themselves ‘Plato’s Ghost’ sent her…View Post
Lucy’s had one date with Simon, a tall, handsome man she found on OKCupid. A few years older than Lucy, with no kids, a stable job and excellent hair, on paper Simon seemed perfect. Via WhatsApp he was chatty, flirty and interested in her, he didn’t send any toe-curling photos,…View Post
It’s time for another guest post! This one’s a really shocking story from a lovely lady named Lorna, which I’ve entitled Lorna and the Liar. Have you ever been in that situation where you’re getting to know two guys and need to make a decision about which way to go?…View Post
Last time, Lucy got chatting to a lovely man from OKCupid named Simon. If you missed that, you can catch up at Part 1 – Heels. Simon seems to tick every single one of Lucy’s boxes: he’s tall, handsome, has good hair, has a job, is clever, chatty, funny, flirty,…View Post
It’s the weekend, and Lucy’s still on her mission to find someone she likes enough to be a replacement for non-monogamous Charlie. This is proving a tad tricky, because (a) most of the men she comes across on dating apps are utter bottom-feeding scum, and (b) although he’s causing her…View Post
A little while ago, I was approached by a very nice lady from Metro.co.uk – the online face of London’s Metro newspaper – and asked to write a first-person piece about being a dating blogger. Wow, right?! It was an exciting but scary request. It’s one thing to have my…View Post
If you follow Lucy on Twitter, you may be aware that she recently went for drinks and dinner with a former colleague – let’s call him Ryan. Not in itself a noteworthy event, but for one thing: Ryan has a girlfriend. Lucy doesn’t know Ryan very well. He was one…View Post
